Fashion Boutique
"; s.text = "Get rid of stuff you don't wear anymore and make some cold, hard cash in the process.
Step 1: Find old clothes that don't fit you or that you just don't like anymore.
Step 2: Find a wide open space and set up tables there.
Step 3: Set your clothes neatly on the tables.
Step 4: Pick fair pices for the items of clothing.
Step 5: Put up posters to advertise your shop.
Step 6: Count your cash.
anonymous, 14
How To Have The Perfect Saturday Night!
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Step 1: Grab a good chick flick or a good romance movie.
Step 2: Make some popcorn and some of your favorite smoothies
Step 3: Sit back, relax, and enjoy your Saturday night.
Maureen, 14
Camping Supplies
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~Shampoo and Conditioner
~Soap
~Lotion
~Chaptstick
~Mini First-aid Kit
~Bra
~Underwear
~Shorts
~Shirts
~Pants
~Pajamas
~Flashlight
~Sleeping bag
~Pillow
~Toothpaste
~Tooth brush
~Hair comb and brush
~Hair elastics and accessories
~Jacket
~Shoes
~Sandals
~Socks
~Notebook and pen to write down friends' phone numbers and addresses
~Disposable camera to take pictures of great times
Alli, 14
How To Have The Perfect Saturday Night!
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Step 1: Grab a good chick flick or a good romance movie.
Step 2: Make some popcorn and some of your favorite smoothies
Step 3: Sit back, relax, and enjoy your Saturday night.
Maureen, 14
How to Choose Your Friends
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girl_power, 12
Friendship :)
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Most people see their friends 2-3 times per week. You might go to a restaurant after school, have a sleepover, or go round each other's house for help with homework. Go to parties together or go shopping.
Don't just be a fairweather friend! Be there for her when she is sad and needs your support. Talk about your problems or watch a chickflick or comedy to help her solve her problems.
Have private jokes, crazy days, and get the giggles together. Have 'your' song, cheesy dance moves, your special mocktail, and take way too many photos!
:), 14
That Boy
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Be Friendly
Make friends with him! if you think of him as a potential new friend instead of a date, you'll be less likely to feel intimidated by him. Just get to know him. You need to make sure he can trust you, so don't talk about other girls to him. He'll think you're mean-spirited and likely to spill his secrets. Have a conversation with him at least every day and let him know that you're his friend. But don't burp or do things like that, or he'll consider you completely off-limits.
Be Funny
You need to create some private joke between you that only he and you share. Tease him a little; this is flirtatious but subtle. He might notice. Tell him funny stories or create funny memories when you're together. Don't tease him too far! You want him to be flattered, not insulted.
Be FoxyUse every opportunity to look glamorous and gorgeous! Make eye contact. That's the best of all. Confidence is foxy!
:), 14
How To Be A Great Friend
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Day 2: Say Hi to her and try to start up a conversation. Keep this up for a few days.
Day 6-7: Hopefully during your conversations you have swapped e-mail addresses. If so, why not talk to her online or send her an email asking her if she's OK?
Day 8: If you both have a social networking site, leave a comment. She will likely reply back to you and then you can continue this conversation.
Continue having conversations with her, e-mails, and comments until you feel comfortable going shopping with her. If you're not quite comfortable, suggest you invite some of your friends and she invites some of hers. There you have it!
Lovely, 14
Money Saving
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Melissa, 10
Be Who You Want to Be
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Melissa, 10
How to Scream Confidence!
"; s.text = "1. Do things you wouldn't normally try, only if it isn't dangerous!
2. Always keep your head up, and remember to be yourself!
Libby, 13
Pets
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Weirdo, 11
The Ultimate Weekend: Saturday and Sunday
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MORNING: When you wake up, do some yoga or stretching for 15 minutes. Have some hot herbal tea and watch some T.V. for an hour or so. This is supposed to be relaxing, so no loud shows. Eat a healthy and filling breakfast, and only eat till you are comfortably full. Now spend some time doing your hobby: poetry, dancing, whatever you love, do it! Now get everything off your To Do list; do that research paper, clean your room, etc.
NOON: Eat a filling lunch. Don't skimp. Then go to the gym or an exercise class, or do a workout tape. Do about thirty minutes to an hour of it and remember to drink water. You're ready to take a long hot bath and listen to relaxing music. In your bath, use candles or read. Only get out when you are relaxed, don't go by how wrinkly your fingers get. You now have the chance to do some meditation. Make a compilation CD of all your favorite workout or dance tunes.
EVENING: Dinner! Eat your favorite food. Read or watch T.V. while you eat. Enjoy this time. Get a massage from someone if you can, or use a personal massager. Or just relax and read. Hit the sack early to get a good night's rest. ENJOY!
Sunday
MORNING: When you awake, make your breakfast something sweet and with citrus too. This will be a good start to the day. I suggest chocolate chip pancakes with orange slices, yum! Now take a shower and wash up. Next, rent a fun movie and buy some munchy snacks and candy for later.
NOON: Find a room to set up a home spa - this will be fun! Have stations for nails, hair, makeup, facials, and massages. Invite a mate up, if possible, or get a sibling or parent to help you. Pamper yourselves to your hearts' content. Play around with hair. For example, you could get it wet and dry it into waves, or spray it into a cone. Experiment with makeup - ask your mate to bring some too. Massage each other. Give each other facials with peel-off masks. You should feel like princesses! Have tea sandwiches and sparkling water for lunch. Now finalize your hair and makeup looks, and dress up in fun formal wear.
EVENING: for dinner, order in and eat with your pal. Now, you should turn up the CD you made yesterday and DANCE! You will be refreshed. Next, pop in the movie you rented and pig out! Now, stay up reading magazines, surfing the net, and watching mindless T.V. until your mate must leave. After washing up your beautiful self, go to bed! I hope this helps you feel great about yourself. Have days like this every few months. You deserves this!
Zimza Gal, 13
Christmas Card Creativity
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Anonymous, 12
Fashion Fever Night
"; s.text = "Do you have clothes that don't fit or you don't want anymore? Do your friends have the same problem? Your solution, a Fashion Fever Night! Find a big open space in your house (with seating and lots of space!). Get drinks and snacks (nothing too major), clean out your closet (anything will do! Ripped jeans, old t-shirts, scarves, hats, jewelry, etc.), invite your friends (not too many so you'll have plenty of room), be sure to include in the invitation where the party is, what time, bring old clothes, bring bags, and any decor for your event. During the party, allow one hour for set-up of the shops, allow a snack time, everybody gets to make a wishlist, and then trade. Also have on hand scissors, ribbon, stickers, iron, iron-ons, etc. so you can edit your new clothes! And finally, HAVE A FASHION SHOW! Take pictures or videotape. Donate all leftover clothes to a Goodwill, Salvation Army, or other organization.
Lauren, 12
Stuff to do with your Best Friends
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2. Make cookies with sayings.
3. Face your fears together. If you're scared of heights then go rock climbing, if she's scared of alligators go visit a zoo together
4. Make up your own face masks and have a night together
5. Eat something you hate together. If you hate mushrooms you have to eat them, if she hates fish then she has to eat some.
6. Learn a new sport together
7. Go to the park and see who can climb the highest tree
8. Go shopping together and spend ages trying on mad outfits.
9. Draw portraits of each other
10. Stick a pound coin to the ground with glue and see how many people try and pick it up.
A and H, 12
Backstage Boredom
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2. Practice your lines or dance routines or go over the tricky bits.
3. Help other people get ready, it'll keep you busy.
4. Drink plenty of water before going on stage but not to much because you don't want to wet youself in the middle of the perfomance!
5. Eat plenty of carbs for energy: avoid sweets, you just get an energy slump.
6. Chew teeth whitening gum, it make your breath smell good and have sparkling pearls.
7. Make friends with the other people in case you ever met each other again.
8. Before you go on practice one more time.
9. Breathe in, breathe out 3 times and you're ready!
By Prodancer, 16
How to Get through any Audition
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2. Don't forget to stretch everyday so you're limber.
3. On the day get to the audition early, it's a sign of respect.
4. Smile! A smile gets you everywhere.
5. When it gets to your turn dance your heart out.
6. Once the audition is over go and relax and just wait.
7. If you don't get the part don't fret, it obviously wasn't meant to be. 8. If you do get the part congratulations!
By Prodancer, 16
How to Get Ready for the Stage!
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2. Even if you have really good skin you will still need to wear foundation because if you don't you'll look like a ghost.
3. Once you have put on the foundation wear a little powder so it stays on.
4. Wear a little bit of blusher for gorgeous rosy cheeks.
5. Now the face is done it's time for the eyeshadow.
6. Two coats of mascara and outline your eye with eyeliner.
7. For lips a nude pink lipstick is perfect and add a swish of clear gloss.
8. For your hair get your fringe out of your hair. I ususally do a party ponytail without the quiff. So I pull all my hair back and tightly put it up. Then I get a black or brown clip and get my fringe and stick it to the back of my head. Hairspray to hold and smooth serum will make your hair really shiny under the light. Now you are ready for the stage!
By Prodancer, 16
How to Be a Dancer
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2. Once you think you're confident enough in your dance routines why not perform at a school show.
3. If your school show goes okay try and do public shows in your local area.
4. The more shows you do the more impressive it will be when you tell people.
5. Get GSCE's in dance if your school offers it. If they don't try drama.
6. Once you get your GSCE's in dance and get a good grade why not get your A level's in dance?
7. Now you're getting older you can auditon for bigger shows in London or Bristol.
9. And congrats! You are a real dancer!
By Prodancer, 16
How to Get More Friends
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2. After smiling at them for a week starting saying hello when you see each other.
3. After a week of saying hi to each over, compliment them on something like a bag, hairstyle, etc.
4. Hopefully the compliment got you into a conversation. If so, ask for their mobile number or e-mail address.
5. Now you are friends, text a funny joke ever so often and once you get even closer invite them shopping with you or invite them round your house.
6. Do this to people you would like to be friends with but don't forget your other friends. In fact when you've got all the friends you wanted why not hold a massive party or sleepover so everyone can get to know each other.
7. There you have it, instant popularity.
By Anonymous
How to Be Good at...
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1. Stretch regularly so you're more flexible when dancing.
2. Learn a new dance move everyday. When you learn several join them together to make a dance.
3. Join a dance club.
4. Eat healthy and exercise regularly and remember when performing to smile!
Gymnastics:
1. Once again stretch everyday, yoga is very good too.
2. Learn a gymnastic move and practise it every single day until it's perfection. Then you can show it off and everyone will think you're really good at it.
3. Join a gymnastics club
4. Again eat well and exercise regularly.
Art:
1. Draw every single day, it really improves your skills.
2. Don't draw the same thing over and over again, find a category, like people or landscape, and fix on that, but don't repeat exactly the same thing.
3. If drawing isn't your thing why not join a pottery class or an art club?
4. Get inspirations from other famous artists.
Cooking:
1. Cook simple things at first, then you can get more complicated as you improve.
2. Read cookbooks for simple information about cooking.
3. Once you improve think about something you would love to make, for example a cake or a complicated chicken curry. Whatever it is, try cooking it, and if it goes wrong it doesn't matter because at least you tried.
Hairdressing:
1. Learn simple moves at first.
2. Get inspriation from magazines and try other hairstyles.
3. Practice your hairstyles on family members or friends.
4. Pretend to know what you're doing! It seems way more professional even if you don't have a clue.
By Ashy, 12
How to Prepare for the First Day of School
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2. Make sure that the outfit you are going to wear is already clean, because you might not have time to wash it in the morning.
3. Be sure to have all of your supplies - paper, pencils, pen, eraser, calculator, binder, and pocket dictionary.
4. It is important to be early and not late on the first day. Be sure that you get there on time, with time to spare. 5. Enjoy your first day!
By Caylete, 14
How to Write a Great Paragraph!
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How to get a head start: First take a blank paper and jot your ideas about your topic. Then look over your ideas and pick at least 3 ideas. Start with what? Start with a title. Make sure it tells what your paragraph is, but don't give it all away.
How to write the paragraph: First INDENT. Then start writing about what your paragraph is about. Skip lines on a rough draft. This will help with revising and editing in the last step. When you start writing, use the 3 ideas and explain about them. Stay with the same topic! End with another sentence that tells the same thing about the first sentence, but in a differemt way.
Editing and revising: Know your spelling? Check any spelling mistakes, and add or take away information in your piece on the skipped lines.
Final Draft: If you have the writer's cramp, skip this step. If you want your piece to look good, write your piece all over but with the edited and revised version. It's okay if you want to skip this step, but still it shows you did great on your paragraph!
By Anonymous
Sleepovers
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2. Play games. For example: put blind folds on each other and try to feed each other like that. Or, have everyone get a bowl and put a piece of bubblegum in it. Then pour whipped cream on top of it and try to see who can eat all of the whipped cream before reaching the bubblegum. The first one to blow a bubble wins.
3. Stay up all night!
By Chloe, 10
Crushes
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By Brown-ey, 12
How to Write a Good Song!
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2. Think of the situation you will write about
3. Pick a character the song will be about
4. write a few things about the character
5. Shut yourself in your room so you have no distractions and try to shut out any other song that might be stuck in your head because you should not plagarize
7. write a few phrases that could go in your song, or anything your song will be about
8. Pick a good phrase
9. write another phrase that continues the thought
10. Keep writing until you have a song but when you're done don't be afraid to edit!
By Bronte, 13
Be a Great Mate!
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2. Be fun to be around! Make silly jokes, get the giggles, make up silly rhymes to entertain each other, and get chatting!
3. See each other 2-3 times a week. For example you may go somewhere after school on a Thursday, perhaps to McDonalds, shopping centre, anywhere. Then on the weekend you could have a sleepover.
4. Help each other with homework and classwork.
5. Text or e-mail sometimes. It may be about homework, EastEnders, some joke you heard...
6. Join a club together! Dance, gymnastics, swimming, netball, whatever you're both intrested in.
7. If you argue think about why? Was it a stupid reason? You might have to take the first step.
By Yellow
How to Get a Good Night's Rest
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2. Drop a couple of drops of lavender oil on your pillow. 3. Turn off any sound and the main light. If you don't like the dark then invest in a lava lamp. They give off a very low light and are very calming to look at. 4. Close your eyes and breathe slowly three times.
By Ashy, 13
How to Have a Cheap, In-Home Spa
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2. On that day, eat a nice breakfast by yourself.
3. First, you need to exercize a little bit. Jump rope, dance, just do something fun and healthy.
4. Take a warm bubble bath in a dim room with lighted candles and relaxing music.
5. Then you can do your nails.
6. After that, sit in a hot steamy room by yourself. This helps you relax.
7. Fix your hair anyway you want to.
8. Put on your favorite kinds of make-up.
9. Go shopping at your favorite store. Eat out at your favorite restauraunt.
You've had an amazing spa day!
By SugaPuffbaby, 11
Tangrams
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By chi_1, 9
How To Write Poetry
"; s.text = "1. What Do I Write About? Write about something you are passionate about, or you could write about something you have experienced and about how you feel. Maybe you went on the holiday of a lifetime or fallen in love. Do you love your pals? It can be anything.
2. How Do I Put It Into Words? Say for example I'll think of a great holiday I had, I'll think the way I felt getting up in the morning, going to the club every night, dancing, and going to the beach. Put all those feelings down. Do a brainstorm, on a piece of a paper write all the words that come into in your head.
3. There are loads of great poetry styles out there; your poem can be rhyming, or not. You could write into a song form, you could write like it a story.
4. How Do I Lay Out My Poem? You could use paragraphs. You could use one short sentence and then a new line or look at some poems on SmartGirl's poem section and see how other girls have laid out their poems.
5. Can I Copy Someone's Poem? No! It is the author's own work and if a poem is copyrighted and you take bits out you could be in serious trouble. So stick to your own work, keep it original.
6. How To Name Your Title... Think about what you're writing about as I mentioned and keep it simple. You could say My Holiday. Try to think a catchy title too, to make readers interested.
7. Feel Good About Yourself. You never know you could be the next famous poet, we all have to start from the beginning. I started at the age of 14 and my style and poetry is changing all the time, yours will gradually too and they will get better and better. So never doubt yourself and if you don't like your poem, submit it to SmartGirl anyway and there are girls out there guaranteed to read your poem and you never know you could be become the next Super SmartGirl and don't give up!
8. Written By.... Don't forget to write your name or nickname so people know its yours, a mistake which is often made. 8. Check out your local library, read books and poetry books. Read a dictionary if you are stuck for words to use. You will develope a sense of style. Read some poems by SmartGirls or maybe you could write to a mentor in the SmartCentre or Mentor of the month, I'm sure they will be able to help you too.
By Katie, 17
Major Tip
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By Miley, 10
How to Stay Down-to-Earth
"; s.text = "Choices mean a lot; some more than others. Here are 10 tips to help you keep a cool head when those big decisions come around.
1. Wear what YOU want to wear.
2. Take everything with a grain of salt.
3. Remember that people usually aren't looking at you.
4. Don't change because someone else told you to.
5. Avoid peer presure, and don't do it to others.
6. When you make choices, think about it makes you feel.
7. If it's something that makes you happy, who cares what others think of it?
8. Remember, you always have your friends when guys are being jerks.
9. Don't do anything that you will regret.
10. This is the most important one: in a few years when you are applying for college or going to a job interview, they won't care what you wore, who you were friends with, how much your clothes cost, who you went out with, what brands you wore, or how often you dyed your hair. They'll care about your grades, your professional recommendations, and your own success.
By Madysen, 14
How to Feel Good about Yourself
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1. Remind yourself everyday how wonderful life is and remind yourself that you're beautiful and strong.
2. Write in your diary about who you are.
3. Don't let anyone tell you that you're not talented or that you can achieve your goals.
4. Most important believe in yourself and anything is possible!
By Mara, 11
Travel
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By Melissa, 14
How to Talk to Your Crush
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1. What are they intrested in? Sports? Baseball cards? Dogs? For example, if you crush likes video games aske them if they've ever played with a Wii. Try it! It worked for me!
2. Tell them what you like about them. You could say how much you like their shoes.
3. Take an interest in what they do. If they play on a team, ask them about the games.
4. If you feel nervous about talking to your crush, just take a deep breath and think: I'm not the only person who's afraid. Everyone goes through this. Just be YOURSELF. When you're done you'll be proud you did it and you just might feel comfortable around them.
By Alexis, 10
Writer's Block Riddance
"; s.text = "Ahhh! I have writers block! What should I do? Unfortunately, there is no Inspiration Fairy that secretly comes to you when you're trying to write in your notebook or type something on the computer. And, even though you may sometimes wish there was, there is no cure for writer's block either. But I learned this method from a professional writer. When you get writers block, just keep writing something like: I have writers block, I have writers block - over and over, until, eventually, a new idea pops into your head for something new to write. It may get boring, but it usually works. If this procedure fails, try watching a movie or reading a book, or even taking a walk, or going to the mall! You can get inspiration anywhere. Sometimes I get the strangest inspirations, but those little details can lead to big stories.
By Seekingstardust, 12
Crushes
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1. Do NOT try to change who you are. Be yourself.
2. Get him/her to notice you. But don't brag or anything. Show them something that you're good at
3. Become friends, get closer to your crush, then ask them out OR just ask them out.
4. Ask them out to a group date, not just you two. It's easier on both of you.
5. Once you feel comfortable ask him/her out on a REAL date.
6. Don't feel bad if you are rejected. It's okay, really. Be sad for a little bit, sure, but then get over it. Be happy about the awesome person you are!
By Carolyn, 12
How to Have a Great Sleepover
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1. Get music. Specifically, music people can dance to.
2. Make sure you do not leave anyone out-- make sure everyone gets to bring up a topic that they like.
3. Make sure there is plenty of food.
4. Give each other makeovers.
5. My favorite is \"Gossip Hour.\" This is the time where you just talk--a game of truth or dare would be great at this time.
6. Make a home spa for all the girls. (If this is a hit, give each girl a list of how they could do it themselves at home).
7. Ladies' choice: Let the girls give you suggestions on want they want to do next.
8. Get a movie you know everyone will love and make sure you have lots of popcorn.
9. DESSERT!!! Ice cream sundaes work best .(A good idea is to put out everything seperately and lay it out so the girls can pick what they want on their sundaes.)
10. Just have fun and put your twist on it. If there is something you know your friends would like to do, find a way to try it out. (Ex. If your friends are sporty, you could ask your mom or dad to take you to the park and play some games. Or if your friends are really girly, you could make the theme of your party like a spa or hair studio.)
By Sophia, 12
In Love With One Of Your Great Mates?
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1. Try a bit of harmless flirting. Make sure you don't go overboard; you don't want to make him feel uncomfortable.
2. Try to make that extra effort when you're around him--like putting your hair in a different hairstyle or wearing that new lip gloss.
3. Invite him over to your house. Make sure you have something fun planned.
4. Take him to your room and hint that you have some hidden feelings for him. 5. If he reacts badly (looking around embarrassed, or not saying anything), don't go any further. If he reacts well (hinting he does a bit too, or suddenly seeming very interested), then go for it and tell him you how you feel!
By Laurie-Ann, 13
How to get a Guy
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1. Consider the guy that you have your eyes on. Is he nice? How does he treat girls? Why do you like him? (Popularity level, cute, nice, funny, same interest, etc.)
2. Catch his eye and smile. Do this every time that he looks at you. For the first couple of days, don't approach him--let him come to you.
3. Now you approach him. Talk about anything. Examples: Sports, how boring math class was, art class, how funny he is in gym, etc. If you get really tongue-tied around guys (like me!), jot down a few ideas on a piece of paper and memorize them--problem solved!
4. This is probably one of the hardest ones to accomplish, and for some girls (like me), this one takes SERIOUS guts: sit next to him at lunch, or be his lab partner. To accomplish being his lab partner, catch his eye A LOT right before they choose partners. If he keeps on looking back at you, ask him. If he keeps looking AWAY, you might want to consider somebody else. Once you're his lab partner or once you sit next to him at lunch, do it often. Just don't crowd him.
By Anonymous
Party Games (for ages 8 +)
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You need tissue boxes, and pens. Make two big dice out of tissue boxes. On one of them, write things like \"elbow of the person opposite,\" \"floor,\" \"mouth of the person sitting to your left,\" \"knee of the person on your left,\" \"ceiling\" and on the other, write things like \"put your hand on the,\" \"put your mouth on the,\" \"put your right knee on the,\" as well as 'RELEASE' on both the dice. All of you should sit in a circle and take it in turns to roll both dice. Follow the instructions on the dice. For example, on one of them it might say \"put your right knee on the,\" and the other might say \"floor\" so you put your right knee on the floor. If either of the dice say \"release,\" then everyone can relax and you start again. Keep playing until you want to stop.
The Orange Game
You need an orange (or tennis ball). Get in two teams and in two respective lines. The first person puts the orange under their chin and when someone says GO, the first person must pass the orange from under their chin to under the chin of the person behind them. The first team to finish wins!
The good prize/bad prize game
You need some good prizes and some bad prizes (wrapped up) and two packs of cards. The 'dealer' gives everyone cards so the first pack is shared among everyone. The dealer then picks up the top card off the second deck and reads it out (e.g. two of spades). Whoever has that card gets to pick one of the wrapped up prizes. It keeps going like this, but you will soon run out of prizes. When this happens, people can take the prizes they want from other people. You carry on until all the cards from the 2nd pack have been called out. Open your prizes. The person who thinks they've got the best usually has the worst!! Hope you enjoy these party games!
By Beth, 13
Steps to Having a Good Attitude
"; s.text = " 1. Don't be a show-off.
2. Be willing to share the spotlight.
3. Don't flirt with every boy you see.
4. Don't date more than one boy at a time.
5. Befriend those who need friends and those who don't.
6. Be willing to try new things.
7. Don't think you're better than anyone else.
8. Volunteer for school fundraisers and events.
9. Don't follow the crowd.
10. Don't gossip.
By Kaitlin, 14
How to Get Over a Guy In Just One Day
"; s.text = "1. Go to the mall and have fun.
2. Treat yourself to some new outfits and shoes.
3. Get a manicure and a pedicure.
4. Get a new hairstyle and maybe highlights or completely dye it.
5. Go watch a good movie and get a lot of sweets for it.
6. Get yourself new make-up, perfume, and jewelry.
7. Invite a few friends to come along with you to the mall or just out to the park.
By angelwingz, 13
Steps to Writing a Song
"; s.text = "1. Think of an idea that you could put into rhythm.
2. Try to put your idea into a chorus. (A chorus is, in this case, a part of a song where you say the main idea of the song and repeat it after verses.)
3. Write the words around the chorus to make verses.
4. Think of a rhythm or beat to go to your song.
5. Just add music, and you've made a song!
By Song Writer 10****, 10
Bored No More
"; s.text = " If you're ever bored because you're grounded or just anything else like that, this might give you some ideas.
1. Go to the movies with your friend or even go to the mall.
2. Create an art or craft.
3. Rent a movie or go to a pool.
You could try anything here. If there isn't really anything interesting in this, try to think of something really fun. You could even plan a slumber party and get ideas.
By Taylor , 11
What to Write in your Diary
"; s.text = "Get bored of writing the same thing? Here are some tips to write in your diary.
1. I think you shouldn't keep secrets, otherwise they get out into the crowd!
2. Write stories.
3. Do some songwriting.
4. Write about your weekend.
5. Do not write who you fancy; it can get in the crowd as well!
6. Your dream sleepover just for fun!
By star334541, 10
How To Be An Entrepreneur
"; s.text = "1. Get a group of friends.
2. Have a group name.
3. Decide on what to sell.
4. Decide on what you will need.
5. Get each member to donate an amount of money.
6. Have a small stall.
7. Decorate your stall.
8. Get customers.
9. If you earn a profit, you could share it among yourselves or donate it to charity!
By Jasmine, 15
How to Stay Friends, Even When You're Far Apart
"; s.text = " My best friend and I always had the greatest times together, but then I moved--halfway across the world! But we're still best friends and stay in touch, and you can too!
1. E-mail her bits of news, even if it doesn't seem that important.
2. Mail (as in, snail mail) her a card on her birthday.
3. Call her up for a surprise every week.
4. Send her a postcard or letter every month or so.
5. Chat online.
6. Send her pics of yourself--where you are living, funny pics, whatever. You can even make a photoblog online, where you both can post pictures!
7. Surprise her with a mailed parcel of friendship bracelets and other small gifts, like a CD she's been dying to have! You can even tape yourself on an audio cassette, or mail her a video you've made!
8. Vow to meet up someday, someplace. Maybe it'll be years from now, when you're all grown up...you never know...
By Moni, 14
Poetry
"; s.text = "1. Think of a joyful, sad, or a pleasant time you had.
2. Put your thoughts on paper.
3. Think of a title.
4. Presto and you have a poem!
Moonstone, 9
How to Make a Homemade Birdfeeder
"; s.text = "You need
Bird food (seeds), an ice cube tray, water (for ice cube tray!), ribbon or string, and clothes pins (optional)!
Instructions
1. Put water in ice cube tray.
2. Put some bird seed in the ice cube tray with water in it.
3. Get a piece of ribbon or string, any size you want, but not too short!! Tie it and place it in the water in the ice cube tray.
4. Put in freezer and leave in for about 4-6 hours, just to make sure it is fully frozen.
5. Get clothes pins (optional) and hang them up on a clothesline or someplace where the birds can get it.
By gypsyrose, 12
Dreams Come True
"; s.text = "How to make your dream come true:
1. Believe in it with all your heart.
2. Stand out.
3. Get support from someone else, to root you on.
4. Do what you can, like join school clubs or anything else that would boost you up a little in whatever you are doing.
5. Whatever it is, go above and beyond. If you want to be a dancer- practice; a doctor- volunteer at a nursing home; a singer- sing in the talent show.
6. Be the best you can be. Don't let a thing hold you back. Be passionate, persistent, and skilled.
By Annoynmous , 16
Friends
"; s.text = "If you have made a new friend, try your best to get to know them. If you just decide to invite them over to your house, then things could go wrong. They could be really rude. They might not like your style, or you might not like theirs. So make sure you know them very well indeed. Also make sure you are able to understand them. If they happen to be new, always try make them feel welcome. If you have lost quite a lot of friends recently, then it might be because you might not be making them feel comfortable. Stay calm, and be friendly with them. It's the best way to make friends.
By Nicola, 9
Tips To Have A Good Role Model
"; s.text = "You need
Yourself, and a person you look up to (and these instructions).
1. Make sure that the person you chose is someone who has a lot in common with you, maybe an older sister or another relative or even a celebrity.
2. See if they have done something that you want to do in life.
3. See if what they have done is also appropriate and they have done quite well in what they have done. (It can basically be a small achievement or such.)4. Make sure that this person is also someone others approve of and would want you to follow in their footsteps.
5. Now you're ready to pick that special person who will guide you to success! :-)
By Laurie-Ann, 12
How To Love Yourself (Very Important)
"; s.text = "You need
A pen, a sheet of paper and honesty.
1. Draw a dividing line down the piece of paper.
2. On one of the sides, write all your good qualities down. It could be anything from your personality to your achievements. If you're stuck, ask a friend to give you some pointers on what she/he likes about you.
3. On the other side, write down what you would like to be/achieve. Don't put something hard like \"be a better friend\"; break it down into achievable chunks like \"be more caring and listening so I am a better friend\".
4. Go about achieving the items on the right hand-side. Don't worry if you can't do them all, because you've got your whole life to do them so don't panic if you can't do it instantly.
5. You will actually love yourself more (without being vain) when you become a better person. You'll think to yourself, \"Wow, I really am a great person!\" And that means the list's worked!! Good luck!
By Lola, 15
How to find a guy in three days
"; s.text = "1. If you're in school, look around for a boy you like.
2. If you don't know if he has a girlfriend, ask a friend.
3. If you want to go out with him, you have to be brave and go up to him or have a friend ask him.
4. If he says no, wait a while to ask him again-- maybe he's not ready to have a girlfriend or maybe he already has a girlfriend.
5. Talk to him before you ask him out. (Don't rush it!)
6. Ask him what his interests are- like sports, music, and family stuff.
7. Going out can be anything from hanging out at school a lot or going on a date.
8. If you like a lot of boys at once, don't be embarassed because I like over five boys.
By Boy Lover, 11
Boredom Busters
"; s.text = "Here are some tips to spice up a boring day!
1. Make a scrapbook; you'll want to look back on it when you're older.
2. Make a journal to keep track of your thoughts.
3. Make a website.
4. Host a sleepover.
5. Go for a jog.
6. Spend some time alone.
7. Start a new trend.
8. Try flower pressing.
9. Sit back and watch some movies.
10. Go shopping.
By Jo Lee, 12
Ways to Get Over a Guy
"; s.text = "1. Write a list of all the bad things about this person--this is hard but try to block out the good stuff.
2. Put all the pictures of him in a box that you keep closed until you are over him.
3. Try to avoid listening to sad, romantic music that could make you think of him.
4. Make plans with your friends to occupy your time.
5. Get a good book that you can plunge into to get your mind off him.
6. Start something new: if you're not ready for another guy yet, try to get into an interesting new project.
7. Make sure you have someone to talk to if you need it. Some people, even if they don't seem like it, are very good listeners.
By Crazygirl, 18
Crush
"; s.text = "If you have a crush and you think they like you too, go for it! Ease up to telling them, because what do you have to lose? If you pretend that you don't like them, then start being nice to them. Then you can tell them, or at least have a new friend.
By GB, 10
How to Decorate Your Room Without Spending a Lot of Money
"; s.text = "If your room needs decorating, then this is perfect for you. First get permission from your parent and have them help you get supplies.
1. Before you can begin decorating your room, you will need to move all your most valuable belongings into another room.
2. Decide what colour you want your room (basic colours that are fairly bold are just perfect). Then start painting.
3. Decorate your room with pictures.
4. Now you can add all your stuff back to the room.
By The Best, 11
How to Get Friends' Presents for Less
"; s.text = "You may think that you can only get good presents at high prices, but that isn't true. By spending a little and using your creative side, you can create a present that looks really expensive but more importantly is full of feelings from you!
Here are some ideas:
1. Buy a pair of knickers from a cheap clothes shop - just a plain pair. Then at home, sew ribbons into the sides, use fabric pens and transfers and make those knickers gorgeous!
2. Draw a picture and frame it in a clip art frame (look out at shops for them).
3. Find a special photo of you and your friend and stick it in the middle of a piece of card. Decorate around the photo and you've got a lovely photo frame.
4. Buy a cheap, plain scrapbook from the store and decorate the cover with pictures, photos and special things. Give it to your friend as a diary.
5. Badge kits are a good thing to invest in as you can make loads of badges - you can even draw your own designs. Badges can be special presents!
6. Find a big sheet of paper and draw something on it or stick pictures of your friend's crush all over it. Voila - a poster!
7. A cheap pair of hair slides can be easily decorated with glitter nail polish. Good luck!
By StyleQueen, 15
Decorating Your Room
"; s.text = "If you think that your room is boring and needs some change, follow these easy instructions for a fabulous room.
1. Plan out how you want your room to look (e.g. colour, flooring, wallpaper, furniture).
2. Move all your valuables into another room so when decorating, they will not get damaged.
3. All the big things you did not move, cover with plastic so they won't get damaged either.
4. Start painting (make sure you have somebody with you for help). Add patterns or effects or give it a theme.
5. Finally, put everything back in your room the same way or in a different a way than before. Always remember, MAKE SURE YOU HAVE ADULT SUPERVISION!
By Ashleigh, 11
How to Throw the Perfect Party
"; s.text = "There are three words that you need to know to have the perfect party: Prepare, Provide, and Having Fun!
Part One: Prepare
1. Make a guest list
2. Pick a theme and stick to it
3. You should send invitations out at least two weeks before the party and give them a week to respond
4. Put decorations up the night before, so nothing bad will happen to them. This will also prevent you from feeling rushed the day of the party
5. Have a plan from the time the guests arrive to the time they leave. Don't forget about the games either!
Part Two: Provide
1. Be sure there is enough food for everybody. Try to make it stick to the theme. Make sure everybody can eat what you are serving
2. Make sure everybody has enough space for games and eating. If they are spending the night, then make sure there is room for everyone to sleep.
Well you know how to do the third part: just have fun and be yourself!
By Lawyergirl, 12
How to Have the Perfect Sleepover
"; s.text = "You need
Popcorn, facial masks, a chick flick, a mini couch, snacks, and a big room.
Instructions
First call your friends to tell them about your party and tell them to bring PJ's, party clothes, and their favorite CD. Next, set up a big room with balloons, streamers and a DJ station. Remember: do not invite any boys!!! This is your girls' night in. When they come, tell them to change into their party clothes. You should already have yours on. Set up the snacks and drinks. When they come down, put on one of the CDs and party and eat, talk, dance, and drink the soda until everyone is so tired, they literally drop. Then go upstairs, change, and apply the masks. Then you or one of your friends should go downstairs and make the popcorn. Have the mini-couch in your room and put on the movie. You should probably vote on the movie. After that, snuggle up in your sleeping bags and the next morning go SHOPPING!
By Crybaby11, 10
How to Win Him Over
"; s.text = "1.Be yourself at all times.
2.Let him get to know you.
3.Get to know him.
4.Drop hints that you fancy him either to his face or his friends or even both
5.Hope for the best.
By BX, 12
How to Eat Better
"; s.text = "Don't all of a sudden try to change your diet, take it bit by bit. Instead of totally wiping out sugars from your diet, take time and slowly take less and less, it helps your body to get used to it. And remember - don't ever skip breakfast!
By Sammy, 15
Have a Fun Family Night
"; s.text = "1. Ask your mom or dad if they have any family-friendly board games that you can play (pick out two or three with your family).
2. Next, make some punch to enjoy with your family.
3. Ask your mom if you can help her make dinner (make something special that everyone likes).
4. Pick out your family's favorite movie and watch it while you eat dinner.
5. After that, pick out one of the games you and your family chose earlier and play it.
6. Keep going till you reach your destination of fun.
By Angel, 13
Being Cool
"; s.text = "1. Have your own style
2. Be yourself
3. Be nice to everyone
4. Make friends with boys.
5. Smile
6. Do what you want. (You don’t have to do anything I say, of course!)
By Yassie O, 12
Hand Clapping Games
"; s.text = "Sar Macadora
2 Players and Up (More than 2 is great)
What you do is have everyone who is playing in a circle, everyone has their hands out, palms facing up, and the person left of you has to put their right hand on top of your palm. (Do the same to everyone else so everyone has one free right hand to use.) Someone starts and claps their right hand to the left and the other person does this to the person left of them and so on and so on. While you are doing that, you sing this: Sar Macadora, Eyo, eyo, Maria, Maria, Eyo, eyo, tap, tap, tap, (While you are doing the 'tap, tap, tap' the person who is clapping when it gets up to that part claps the other person's hand three times, to the words, 'tap, tap, tap') Eyo, eyo, tap, tap, tap, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10. (During this, the other person (person A) has to clap the other person's hand (person B), Person B has to make them miss and let the Person A clap their own hand. If Person B makes the Person A miss 5 times, Person B is out of the game and the whole game starts again until their is only one person left).
I Know A Song
(This game is ONLY for FOUR players)
Step #1. What you do is raise your left hand up, palm facing down, and your right hand below, palm facing up. The other people do the same. When you play, you clap your left hand to the other person's right hand. (The person to the LEFT of you.) You also clap the other person's left hand with your right hand (the person to the RIGHT of you).
Step #2. Afterwards, you and the other players clap your left hand to the other person's right hand, and your right hand to the other person's left hand.
Step #3. Next, you clap YOUR hands together.
Step #4. Following that, you clap both of your hands to the other person's hands on the right of you. (The person opposite you will do the same with the person left of you.)
Step #5. You then clap your hands together and do the same thing above but to the person on your left.
Step #6. Now here comes the tricky part: You clap your own hands again, and then clap the other person's hands, in the middle of your space (the person sitting/standing OPPOSITE you). The two remaining people will clap their hands above your hands.
Step #7. Repeat Step #6. BUT, clap the other person's hands above the two other people's hands (the other people are doing Step #6). After that, you repeat Steps #2 - #7. Getting faster each turn. Here is the song that you sing when you play this game: I know a song that gets on your nerves, Gets on your nerves, Gets on your nerves, I know a song that gets on your nerves, And it goes a little like this: I know a song that gets on your nerves, Gets on your nerves, Gets on your nerves, I know a song that gets on your nerves, And it goes a little like this: (Keep on singing, it doesn't have an end. It only stops when you finish the hand game). I hope you like these games; they're really great!
By Zara, 12
How To Make/Write A Book
"; s.text = "You need
Paper, a pencil(or other writing instrument), staples
Instructions
1. Think of an idea.
2. Write down some things you might like to write about.
3. Start making complete sentences, putting thoughts into paragraphs, etc.
4. Write as many chapters or pages as you like.
5. Collect the pages together.
6. Staple them together.
7. Think of a title and write 'by Jackie' or whatever your name is.
8. Take it to a publishing company!
By Shocker, 10
Make a Movie
"; s.text = "Making a movie is a cinch, all you have to do is follow 7 easy steps:
1. Invite 1 or 2 of your friends over for actors & actresses
2. Decide what your movie is going to be about
3. Find a setting for your movie (try not to have the same setting for every scene)
4. Add some special effects shots while filming (like holding the camera at an angle)
5. Everybody needs 'lines', you know, things to say
6. Finish your movie with an exclusive ending! It may take a few days to make your movie, or you could do it all in just one day. If your movie takes more than one day, then invite your friends over again sometime and you can finish your movie then.
7. The final step is to invite a whole bunch of your friends over to the 'premiere of your movie. Plug your video camera into the TV and let all of your friends see it. Be sure to invite the friends who acted or helped you make this movie.
Have fun making your movie!
By Schick, 11
How to throw a girly night in when you're depressed because you're in love with someone who doesn't love you back
"; s.text = "Ok, you’re in love with the best boy in the world who you really like and guess what? He really doesn't want to go out with you. You have decided to get together with your girlfriends to keep you company and make you feel better. Well, here’s how you plan the get together!!
1. Firstly, ask your parents if you can have your mates over. Say something like 'But these guys are really quiet and they're going on holiday soon and we need a last night together'. This always works!!
2. Then phone your friends up, telling them they can come round at 7 pm and make sure you tell them to bring extra food, duvets and pillows and of course any DVDs of their choice!
3.While your friends are getting ready at their houses to come round, you should be doing the extra bit of cleaning in your room and ordering the Chinese from the takeaway (Peking chicken, chow mein, soft noodles, 2 rices) perfect!
4.Now your friends have arrived. Take them up to your room and lay out the beds.
5. Go downstairs and watch television, preferably MTV, and wait for the Chinese to come.
6. Once Chinese has come, go into the kitchen and set the table and lay out the food on the table along with the pop and eat!
7. Once you have all eaten, you will be pretty stuffed. So go upstairs and get into your girly PJs and put on the movie, which should be something romantic like Moulin Rouge, Titanic, Serendipity or Pretty Woman. This way, you remember the guy you like while nibbling on the crisps and sweets your friends should have brought!
8. After the movie, you may be pretty loved up and missing your man who doesn't love you so what you do is beautify yourself, like paint your nails, give yourself a facial, try out hairstyles and give each other makeovers! (Do not forget to wash off make-up before going to sleep.)
9. Now you and your friends should get into the beds while still nibbling on the sweets and talk about how much you love the guys.
10. Now, since it may be pretty late, some of you may want to go to sleep, but the rest of you may still want to stay up and talk!!!
11. And don't forget to have fun. Oh, and that guy? Don't worry. Sooner or later, he will want to go out with you!!!!
By Rachel, 14
A Relaxing Night In!
"; s.text = " Have you decided to take the strain off your feet and have a girlie night in?
1. Choose where this will be held (bedrooms are best).
2. Put some funky music on. Maybe you like something soothing like whale sounds or a slowie like Will Young.
3. Either set a good romantic comedy on the telly or find a good book/magazine.
4. Make yourself a hot-water bottle!
5. Voila! A peaceful night in!
By Miss BrianMay, 11
Make Your Own Radio Station!
"; s.text = "This is great for a rainy day. All you have to do is grab a tape recorder, microphone and blank tape and an extra DJ if you like. Rope in a sibling or a friend! It's so simple - and there are no rules. It's completely up to you. Record yourself talking about things that interest you, the latest celeb gossip, and put in some cool tunes every now and then! Play it back to your family and there you are, you're a radio DJ! And don't forget to give yourself a DJ name. You could use your nickname for example, so if you are called Emma you could be DJ Em, or be really creative and do a J-Lo. Use the initial of your first name and shorten your surname, so if you were called Alice Enright you could be A-Right, or change it round to Al-E! It's totally up to you, so have fun!
By Lolo,14
Boredom Busters
"; s.text = "Bored? Not anymore! Try these:
1) Buy a rough book cheaply and keep it as a diary. Decorate the front cover and write in it as much as possible for a record of your teen years.
2) Bake a cake for your mum - she'll be surprised and pleased! But make sure you are allowed to use the oven first.
3) Write a bestselling novel. You never know...
4) Make a trinket box. Find an old, empty soft margarine box for example and decorate the top with coins, stamps, anything you can find around the house. Stick on with PVA glue.
5) Paint a pretty picture and frame it.
6) Try out some new hairstyles and looks.
7) Make all-new lip glosses: mix Vaseline with a bit of lipstick and voila, a cute new colour. (These also make good presents for friends.)
8) Put on a CD with a good beat and do some aerobics! Exercise ideas: March on the spot, spotty dogs, star jumps. Be inventive! But remember to stretch first so you don't pull a muscle.
9) Go for an energizing walk.
10) Give your poor feet some TLC. They do a lot for you, you know.
11) Sounds boring, but get all your homework done. Then you'll have time for fun!
12) Plant some flowers if you have a garden. Water them daily and they'll grow beautifully.
13) Create a yummy ice cream sundae! Cram on the whipped cream, chocolate drops and strawberries and tuck in!
By Lolo, 14
How to do Magic
"; s.text = "You need
3 Glasses, 1 piece of paper
What happens
Put the paper across two of the glasses. It's an ordinary piece of paper, so the audience will be puzzled when you challenge them to stand the third glass on top of the paper.
How it's done
Fold the paper into pleats. This strengthens the paper, and you'll be able to put the third glass on top. To make the pleats, fold the paper from the edge, turning it over about 2cm, then fold it back on itself, then again as the first time till you have finished the whole piece of paper.
By Lara, 13
How To be a Good Girlfriend
"; s.text = "1. Give the guy space, but not too much because then he might start slipping.
2. Talk to him everyday.
3. Try not to be so jealous if he starts to talk to other girls. If it’s something serious, he'll let you know.
4. Last, but not least, try to compliment him on how he looks and how his hair is looking. Guys love that, trust me!
By Kristine, 12
Tips on How To Revise/Study for Exams
"; s.text = "Do you have any important exams coming up? Tearing your hair out with all the studying and revising you have to do for them? Here are a few tips that may help:
- Start revision well in advance of any exams you have. Last minute revision the night before is not a good idea and if you think you don't know the work, you'll only be more nervous!
- Work out a timetable for revision and stick to it. Make sure you put aside plenty of time for each subject and then transfer it to a sheet, which can be put on your wall so you don't forget. Spend more time on your weaker subjects, it will pay off!
- Make sure that you have a quiet area with all the equipment you'll need with which to study.
- Don't just read through your notes. Read them and then cover them up and verbally repeat what you can remember or write the main points down. Another way is to record important notes onto tape and listen to them whenever possible.
- If possible, ask teachers for past exam papers. It's helpful to get a good look at the way questions are presented and worded and the paper will seem less daunting when you actually sit down and work on it.
*Remember, the more thoroughly you revise, the more confident you will feel when it comes to the day of your exam and the more you'll know too!
By Kelly, 16
How to Lose a Boy in One Day
"; s.text = "If you need to break up with your boyfriend, follow these easy steps:
1. Invite him to your house (then he won't feel like he has to walk you home).
2. Prepare what you are going to say and come out and say it. Don't let him speak first because this will just make things harder.
3. Before breaking the news, offer him a soft drink (and get one for yourself). If you feel your mouth is going dry, take a sip and try again.
4. If he has trouble getting over it, find him someone new and hook them up!
5. Make sure you're ready and that you two can still be friends if nothing else!
By Kathy, 13
How to Organize a Sleepover
"; s.text = "1. Get permission from your parents. You don't want to tell everyone they can't come because your mum has said no.
2. Everyone has to bring something. For example, CDs or Drinks.
3. Set a theme like 'The 50s'. Then you can work around that. The movie can be Grease and everyone can come dressed as the characters!
4. Set up your bedroom or living room. Put up decorations and if your theme is Halloween, some pillows to hide behind!
5. Make sure you have something to snack on and plenty of things to do. Set them around your theme. You can play Truth or Dare or see who can tell the spookiest story!
6. Ring everyone the morning before your sleepover. Make sure they know how long it is and what they're bringing.
7. Have Fun!
By Kathy, 12
How to treat a disabled person
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2. Do not stare
3. If the person uses a guide dog, etc, never touch the animal unless given permission.
4. Remember that they have feelings as well
By Giulai, 14
15 Things to do with Your Best Friend!
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1. Learn to play Frisbee. (Neither of us can!)
2. Bake a giant chocolate cake (Mmmmmmm!!)
3. Camp out.
4. Knit a big multi-coloured scarf! (For winter!)
5. Learn to do handstands and cartwheels! (On a spongy rug!)
6. Go on a hike (hard work!)
7. Go to a pottery class (or buy your own pottery wheel!)
8. Get someone to teach you how to do flower-arranging!
9. Go to the cinema (to see a movie you're both interested in!)
10. Learn how to dance (that will be funny!)
11. Learn how to play a musical instrument. (Even funnier!)
12. Make up a secret language (harder then it sounds!)
13. Write into a magazine (guess which one!)
14. Take your pets for walks in the park (Don’t forget pooper scoopers!)
15. Organize at least one day a week (Friday in our case) to meet up for pizza and a DVD! (And the Big Brother evictions!) After all the quality time, you'll be sure to stay friends forever!
By Fun Lovin Chick!, 13
How to keep that 'I just sprayed myself with perfume' smell for hours!
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By FiReLiLy, 15
Go Volunteer!!
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*Most places are willing to take teens anywhere from 14 on up and sometimes 13.
*It makes you feel awesome to be out of the house and helping others while having fun.
*You can pick something you want to do and have fun while doing. i.e.: Something within your interests.
*Most hours are really flexible and most are on weekends. So, get out and volunteer somewhere! I did and had an awesome time!
By Essi, 13
How to be a Friend
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2. Smile and introduce yourself.
3. Get chatting and find out what you have in common.
4. If you like her, maybe invite her to the cinema with some of your other friends.
5.Don't go telling her all your secrets because you don't have full trust.
6. Keep any secrets she tells you and be loyal.
You'll have a friend in no time!
By Cher, 12
How to Get a Boy!
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1) Seen a cute boy? Don't know anything about him? First find out if you know any of his mates.
2) Get a mate of his and chat to him. Then he can tell your crush that you're pretty cool.
3) Find out what kind of things he's into. Say he likes music, maybe you can just happen to bump into him in the music room!
4) Be brave and chat to him. If he folds his arms, he doesn't fancy you; sorry. If he leans towards you or talks enthusiastically, he likes you! This doesn't necessarily mean that he wants to date you, though. He might just want to be your friend. So be friends, and things might develop!
By Babe101, 14
How to Get Your Crush to Notice You
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2. Wear something funky to school or something you never wear
3. Always smile when he looks at you
4. Put your hair up in a cute, girly way
5. Wear fab, glossy lip gloss
6. And most of all, just be YOU!!!
By Astoria, 10
Vile Vacation...into Holiday Heaven!
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1) Collect some pebbles from the beach and paint them cool colours.
2) Make some cakes and ice them with little messages.
3) Buy a notebook and start a journal of your terrible holiday. Get the weight off your shoulders and moan as much as you like.
4) Play a board game with your family/friends.
5) Find out what’s going on in the town. A disco perhaps? If so, glam up and get yourself down there. You’ll make loads of new mates and might even find yourself a foreign pen friend.
6) Get into an internet café and visit the SmartGirl website to make you feel better.
7) Read a good book! Yes, I know, but it can actually be quite fun.
8) Have a long, soothing bath with bath salts and oils.
9) Eat lots of chocolate.
10) Send your friends back in England some postcards. They'll be really pleased to receive them and you'll use up some time.
11) Make a Holiday Box. These are great. Get a margarine box or cookie tin and decorate it. When you find an interesting souvenir, put it in your holiday box. It could be a scrap of paper with Scrabble scores, a pretty stone, one of your decorated pebbles, a pic you drew, a receipt from a shop in your holiday town, a bus ticket, or the address of your new pen pal. If you’re in a foreign country, how about a coin from there? Fill it up as much as you can with useless rubbish you’ve collected. It’s loads of fun and great to look at in a few years time. Boring holiday? Not anymore! The most important tip is to be positive and keep up the spirits. In other words, don't moan too much to your family. Use the journal for that.
By Ami, 14
How to be a Perfect Friend
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2. Don't say mean stuff about them behind their backs.
3. If they're upset about something and you don't know what, don't push them to talk about it but make it clear you're there for them if they want to.
4. Don't just tell them your problems, listen to theirs.
5. Maybe once in a while, make them a special book with memories, stuff you've done, photos, everything to show them how special they are!
6. If you are having a problem with them, don't sulk. Just talk to them politely and explain the problem.
7. Don't rely on them to do your work for you, or always ring them up and ask what the homework was. It will really annoy them!
8. Make sure you have a sense of trust between you. Friendship is nothing without trust. Have fun and happy friendships!
By Ami, 13
How to Have a Film Fest
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2. Go rent movies you think your buddies will enjoy. (Make sure there is a choice.)
3. Before they come, tidy up and make snacks.
4. Have the beverages and food on a table. Cups, napkins, popcorn, chips, dip...maybe even carrots!
5. Dim the lights so it is more exciting.
6. Enjoy the movie!
By Amanda R., 9
Flirting Tips!!
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1. Get an attitude! A good flirt is self-confident and not afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic, open and positive.
2. Start a conversation! The best opening line is simply 'Hello'. Talk about surroundings, ask a question, make a joke or state an opinion. Make sure you are calm.
3. Have fun! Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous! Show your fun side!
4. Do it alone! If you're with a group of friends, try and wait until you're alone before you approach someone. Then if you're rejected, it will not be in front of lots of people.
By Alice, 12
How to Get an A+ Every Time
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2) Put your school books in bright coloured boxes or drawers and put them back after you've finished with them.
3) Go through your pencil case and chuck out anything broken, i.e. crayons with broken leads. Splash out on a few new items to complete your all-new pencil case.
4) Is your pencil case itself boring? Customize it with badges, etc. Be creative. 5) When doing homework, sit at a table without distractions and *concentrate*. Your teachers will love you.
6) When writing an essay, think logically and make a plan first. Write an introduction, basically introducing the essay, write the main bodies of the essay, then write a conclusion summing up what you've said. A+, definitely!
7) Come to class prepared with everything you need. Encourage yourself by writing with fluffy pens and using neat items, like animal-shaped rubbers. Plus your friends love 'em.
8) Offer to help your teachers. If they ask for a volunteer, go ahead and volunteer.
9) Don't break the rules. Get a perfect report.
10) Generally be open and friendly and don't forget your Ps and Qs. And smile! :)
By Lola, 15
Starting a New School!
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1. The first bit of advice is: Smile!
2. Talk to anyone and everyone. Nobody is too uncool or cool to talk to you.
3. Be polite to both students and teachers.
4. Never be late for school--it will give you a bad reputation.
5. Always wear the proper uniform.
6. Do your work in and out of school.
7. Be open and friendly.
8. Always listen to other people! Don’t act like you love the sound of your own voice!
9. Don’t ask too many questions about other people.
10. Be careful not to try get too close to someone who has a best friend! Jealousy will occur.
Enjoy yourself!
By Chloe, 14
How to Get a Job
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2. Get your parent’s or guardian's permission before contacting any of the jobs.
3. Get a worker’s permit, or note from school if necessary.
4. Type up a resume, or a sheet of paper with your previous job experiences. If you don’t have any, that’s okay, just make sure you’re not trying to get a job that requires a lot of experience!
5. Make sure you always apply in person, never over the phone. (But you can call to see if the job is still open.)
6. Dress professionally - no jeans or t-shirts. (Even if you’re going in to just get an application, it’s not a bad idea to look professional then, because first impressions are important!)
7. Have a family member or friend practice interviews with you and the types of questions you may be asked ahead of time so that you’re prepared.
8. During the interview, maintain good eye contact and always be honest with any question. If you feel uncomfortable answering something, tell them so but don’t lie.
9. At the end, thank them for their time, even if you don’t think you got the job.
10. If they tell you that they’ll think about it and let you know, that doesn’t mean you didn’t necessarily get the job. However, if you get a different job, make sure that you call them so they don’t keep considering you.
By Kate, 21
Free thoughtful things to do for family and friends
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2. Clean a room
3. Do their laundry
4. Mow the lawn
5. Rake leaves
6. Wash windows
7. Give them a massage
8. Help them unload groceries
9. Make them a card
10. Call them just to say hi
11. Invite them to go for a walk
12. Spend time with them, doing anything!
13. Invite them to sports events
14. Have a movie night at your house and invite everyone over
15. Take out the trash
16. Do the dishes
17. Watch a TV show with them that you may not like, but know they do
18. Ask them if they need help with anything
19. Tell family members that you love them
20. Pick them flowers
21. Make sure to say thank you, and for that matter, write thank you letters!
By Kate, 21
Vacation Kit for Women
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Clear nail polish
Panty hose (think outside of the box for all their extra uses!)
Scissors
Band aids
Sun block
ID (social security card, license--just be sure to put these in SAFE places!)
AA Batteries
Cellphone
Emergency contact information (also leave contact info with parents/friends before leaving)
By Kate, 21
How to Write a Thank you Letter
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2. Get out a nice pen that doesn’t gob up while writing and is easy to see--don’t use silver on white paper.
3. Start with an appropriate greeting, such as “Dear Ms. Smith,” not “Hey Deb” if the person is elderly and you should be respectful.
4. Make sure you thank them specifically for whatever they gave you. Don’t just say “Thanks for the gift, it’s very nice.” Say “Thank you for the sweater, I love the color red” or something so they know you mean it and it’s specific.
5. Tell them how you’ll use the gift. Even if it’s something you don’t really like, there has to be something you can use it for. If it’s money, you can still think of things you’ll use it for--such as college, put it in the bank or save up for a car
6. You can talk about other things in the letter, but at the end, make sure you thank them again for the gift.
7. If you thank them for the gift at the end also, it’s okay to sign it Sincerely, Love, Yours truly, etc. instead of “Thanks” so it’s not too repetitive.
By Kate, 21
How to pick a college to go to
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* Decide if you want to go in state or out of state.
* Talk to parents/guardians to get their opinion.
* Talk to school advisors to see what they recommend for classes that you should be taking right now. (However, if they give negative advice, or discourage you from going to college, go elsewhere, because you are definitely smart enough to go to college!)
* Start talking to adults now who could be a reference when you apply to college, and make sure that you have their permission before including them as a reference on an application because that’s rude!
* Think about what you’d like to major in, then research what colleges offer that subject.
* Look into financial aid options if you are short on funds.
* Make a list of all colleges that are: within budget, in a location that you’d like, your parents/guardians are okay with, and match your major interests.
* You can look online to see what the school's entrance requirements are at any time, but the longer you wait, the less time you'll have to take a class that you’d need to get into that school.
* At the end of your Sophomore year, go to all the websites and request applications for the colleges that you’re interested in. (Hint: try just applying to your top 5 choices to save yourself application fees.)
* Make sure that you meet all deadlines for college applications because they are not very lenient if you miss deadlines!
* Thank all your references (teachers, friends, family) for their help!
* Enjoy college!
By Kate, 21
Creative ways to save/earn money
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2. Ask your parents/guardians if they have any odd jobs around the house that you can do.
3. Put up flyers at a local community center, church, school, etc about your wonderful babysitting skills and let them know if you have references.
4. Look into getting a local paper route.
5. When printing papers for school, etc. if you are just printing out a rough draft, try to use the other side of old assignments first before using up new paper.
6. If you have any magazine subscriptions, think about whether you really read them, and if you really NEED them. If not, cancel it.
7. If you have cable TV and watch it less than 1 hour per day, talk to your parents/guardian about canceling it to save money.
8. Go door to door in your neighborhood passing out flyers about any types of jobs that you think you could do for them, such as: mowing lawns, babysitting, cleaning, painting, etc.
9. When you get in the mood to go shopping for new clothing at the mall, go through your entire closet, throw everything out on the floor. Then as you refold everything, think about what new types of outfits you could make from what you already have, and if there is anything that you know you’ll never wear, make another pile to take to the Salvation Army, OR have a garage sale!
10. Speaking of garage sales, if it’s summer time, have one! Talk to your parents/guardians about having one, and find things in the house that they don’t want anymore. (Just make sure it’s ok to get rid of something before you add it!)
By Kate, 21
Ways to get out of a bad mood
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2. Thank a friend for something they did for you.
3. Take a nap.
4. Go for a walk, or somehow exercise.
5. Watch your favorite old movie with popcorn or your favorite snack.
6. Spend some time just thinking about what’s making you so mad, and think about how to make things better. Like if you’re mad at a friend, think about kind ways that you could talk about things with them.
7. Go to the SmartGirl website and take some online surveys.
8. Ask your parents/guardians if they need help with anything. (Sure, it’s not always fun, but by helping others, it takes the focus off of the bad mood!)
9. Take care of your pets. If you don’t have any, see if you could volunteer at an animal shelter.
10. Talk to someone about what’s bothering you. Talking is a very good way to vent if you’re having a problem with something or someone!
By Kate, 21
How to Save Money
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* Keep all of your change--it all adds up and soon you will find that you have collected a decent amount of change.
* Keep a budget for yourself. Allow yourself to spend a certain amount of money either per month or per week.
* Set goals, and reward yourself if you reach them. For example, if you keep within your budget then maybe you can watch a movie you like, or TV show, or really anything that you like to do. Having a goal can bring an extra incentive to saving money.
* Be careful when you lend money out. Be sure you trust the person that you are loaning it to so that they will be sure to pay you back.
By Nicole, 21
How to Throw a Hawaiian-Themed Party
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*Make punch with Sprite, Sherbet, and a fruity juice of your choice. You could put all of this in a blender with ice to make a slushy drink as well. It would be really fun if you got little umbrellas to put in the drinks.
*Make fruit kabobs by cutting fruit into pieces and then putting it on skewers with alternating fruits. You could grill chicken with pineapples or some other pork dish because pig roasts are tropical and grilling is much easier.
*Buy leis for the guests to get them in the luau mood. You can give these to them as they walk in.
*String lights outside or inside--wherever the party is--and buy Tiki lamps to keep the bugs away and to make the mood as tropical as possible.
*If you want, you can put up palm tree decorations, or make signs that have Hawaiian words.
*You could learn a Hawaiian dance to teach to your guests as the form of entertainment for the party.
*When the guests arrive, make sure to great them at the door with, 'Aloha', which means hello in Hawaii.
By Nicole, 21
How to Have the Perfect Night In
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1. First fill your bathroom full of face masks, foot packs and moisturizers.
2. Then call up all your gal friends and invite them. Tell them to bring PJs, dressing-gowns, and slippers.
3. Go to the kitchen and get a tray covered in pizza, chocolate, sweets, party punch and cocktails. Don't forget the cucumber for your faces!!
4. Once you're all ready, get changed into your PJs and apply the face masks and foot packs. These are messy, so do them in the bathroom!
5. Now go into the bedroom and mess about with hair and make-up; every girl's dream night in!
6. Before getting into bed, snuggle up in your sleeping bags round the TV and watch a classic chick flick like Legally Blonde or Coyote Ugly! Don't forget to add popcorn.
7. If you're feeling fit and refreshed, you could even get a dance video like Jade Goody's!
You should be so tired by now, you'll be ready to collapse into a warm, comfy bed and get your beauty sleep. Next morning talk over breakfast about the great night you've just had!!
By Nikki, age 14
Soul Searching Time
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A bed and relaxing music
Instructions
1. Lie on your bed, listening to your favourite piece of music
2. Reach right into your soul and think about any problems you might have
3. Now think of possible solutions (check your horoscope)
4. Sit on your bed breathing in and out, then LOOK around you
5. Look at everything, don’t pass your eyes over it, don’t take it for granted
6. Then look outside at the wonder of nature
7. Nurture your soul. You'll feel a LOT better afterwards
By Ariesluvcon, age 12
How to Wrap a Present
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2. Close the box and roll out the wrapping paper. Measure it so that you are sure the paper will cover the whole box. One way to do this is to lay the package down and flip it over right next to it to see how much wrapping paper it will take up.
3. Cut the paper.
4. Fold two opposing sides of paper in towards each other on top of the present.
5. Tape the top of the paper.
6. Start with one of the sides left by folding the corners in just a bit to make a triangle. Then fold the whole side over just a bit and tuck in the sides of the paper. Fold the paper over the present and place a piece of tape on top.
7. Do this on the other side as well.
8. Decorate the present as you see fit with ribbons, curls, etc.
By Nicole, 21
How to Write a Haiku
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By Nicole, 21
How to get Fuzz off of Sweaters
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By Nicole, 21
Some Homemade Gift Ideas
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2. Card
3. Pen holder
4. Collage
5. Decorate Shirt
6. Photo Album--be sure you include pictures of you and the person you are giving the gift to as well!
7. Coupons for housework, ie. cleaning your room, washing dishes, etc.
8. Decorate flower pot
9. Knit scarf
10. Poem
11. Any food item you can make by yourself!
12. Frames--made of popsicle sticks or twigs or extra wood laying around the house
13. Calendar
14. Poster acknowledging their accomplishments
15. Painted pine cones for air fresheners
By Nicole, 21
How to Host a Fun Movie Night
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2. Make popcorn and put in bowls for your guests to enjoy.
3. Rent or find at least 3 movies that you think your friends will enjoy. (It is good to get three so that you have a choice.)
4. Think about what drinks you want your friends to have (in most cases, this will be soda).
5. Make sure you have adequate space for your friends to sit.
6. Make sure you have pillows and blankets so that your friends can make themselves comfortable.
7. Turn the lights down so there is no glare on the TV.
8. If you would like, you can make more snacks. I am sure they will get eaten!
9. Sit back and enjoy the movie!
By Nicole
How to Be on Time
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2. Make sure you allow yourself at least 15 extra minutes in case of unforeseen problems.
3. Try not to press snooze--this can always cause problems.
4. Plan ahead and finish all other tasks beforehand.
5. Wear a watch so that you can refer to it for the time.
6. Plan on how you will get to your destination before so that you can be sure you will have enough time to travel.
By Nicole